It has always been my desire to be a good wife and mother first. Even while watching my mother and father as they journeyed daily  together. I didn’t ever see my mother and father disagree or fight as we say.   They must done that in there alone time away form us . They even hauled pulpwood together and I had the job of taking care of my siblings while they work. I thought that they  were so mean. I wasn’t allowed to play sports in school but anything that had to do with church and my schooling were ok. 100% ok.

it has not been a easy journey but it has been one that I am grateful for. As I became a Women of God , I am can look back through the tunnel of my life and see what all this was for .I can see through the tunnel of a bond that gave me two handsome sons that was reared by me.  I looked deeper through the tunnel of being married for eight years to man that was so opposite of what I thought. Abuse for me and my children  but out of that union came four beautiful children. I had gained a gift of sacrifice and good byes. Through all of this I still want to be married and be the best wife God had called me to be.

I appreciate the role model that my mother was especially being a Frist Lady whom was behind my father no matter what he said or done .We had all kind of people that would  stay at our house and my mother would welcome them in. I will never forget the time when we were at this little church and my Daddy says “I’m going to buy twelve Bibles for Bible study I looked at my Mama and she didn’t say one word. Here we were just barely made it to church and my Daddy says that he’s going to buy Bibles. Yes , He  bought the Bibles and we made it back to church that Sunday, That day my mother left an impression on me that I want to be a strong Wife and Helpmate suitable for my Man of God.

This morning  I reflect on Proverbs 31:10-30 of a lady that  I have preached on at Missionary program. I want to turn my attention to her again to this biblical example because I want to be a good wife. not just for him but I want to please God as a wife when that time comes.

Who can  find a virtuous women ? for her price is far above rubies . This question asked here made me think long and hard, so is this question says that there is a  lack  of a virtuous women.